so it looks like girls, with all their wanting real love and long term and the perfect man and commitment and the “happily ever after”, are the ones that get bored as soon as they get it. What a bunch of fucking hypocrits. Relationships are fun, exciting, exhausting, boring, tedious, and painful.
The essay that’s mentioned in the article has a nice quote:
the ideal of monogamy hasn’t so much been tried and found wanting; rather, it has been found difficult and often left untried. Or at least, not tried for very long.
Maybe that’s why in a healthy relationship (one that isn’t held together by a glue of mutual dependence or shared fear of loneliness) the guy will always check out girls walking by. He’s not getting any ass at home ’cause the girl’s already tired of him. At least we have the brain power to defy biology and aim for monogamy. Or maybe it’s the religion that does it.*
PS: and for the girls reading this i do respect and love you even if you can’t drive, make a decision, kill spiders, or find a guy that isn’t an asshole. It’s all part of your charm.
*as he laughs quietly to himself